Tuesday, October 27, 2009

soul food

This past weekend Rachel came up to visit and we had quite the fun time.  Friday was spent hanging out with my friends here in D.C. for Lauren's 24th birthday where Carrie cooked a fabulous meal...followed by heading out to listen to an 80's cover band.

However - around 1 a.m. after exiting Re-Ra...we come to discover that both mine & Eric's cars had been towed - awesome, right?  So after about an 1.5 hours of getting to the tow lot and then having to wait for the tow truck to come and move the 5 cars blocking me in, Rachel and I finally made it back home around 2:30.  Definitely a later night than we were both intending for!

Saturday was a rainy day...therefore we headed to the Leesburg Outlets.  While it wasn't the "touristy" thing to do...it was really great just to get to hang out with each other in a relaxed setting.  Recently when we've been together there has been a lot of people - so it's not as easy to actually talk and catch up on each other's lives.

Sunday - our day of fun.  We went to church at the National Cathedral and then headed to Annapolis, M.D. for a 2.5 hour cruise along the Chesapeake Bay - which was absolutely beautiful.  The weather was perfect and the 'fall foliage' was just so colorful.  We also got to see three old lighthouses which proved to have a lot of history as well as a U.S. Nuclear Submarine (way cool!!!).

EDIT!: I left out a crucial part of this story.  MONDAY MORNING.  We had reservations to go up to the top of the Washington Monument at 9:30 a.m.   We should have left the house at 8:30, however, due to other circumstances didn't make it out until 8:45 and lost a crucial 15 minutes.  Already running a little behind, I decided to park where I was certain there were spaces - this was about 9:10.  So we had 20 minutes to run from the Potomac to the Washington Monument...and when I say run, we power-walked and ran occasionally - needless to say, I was exhausted by the time we got there - though we made it, and obviously - the views were just wonderful as depicted in the picture below!!

I'm so thankful she got to come to and visit again...even if this time was a little more low key than her previous trip up in March.  Admittedly, I wasn't too excited about her coming to visit the week before she arrived - mainly because I wasn't excited about anything...just part of what I was dealing with.  I wanted to be excited, but couldn't find it in me.  However, thankfully - she did come on this exact weekend....because here again, the Lord is faithful...and I truly needed this weekend with a great friend.



  • a sweet friendship refreshes the soul ~ proverbs 27:9



Chesapeake Bay Bridge






U.S. Nuclear Submarine



Thomas Point Lighthouse






Lincoln Monument & Memorial Bridge (from top of Washington Monument)






oh the pretty trees!!


Saturday, October 24, 2009

Maine-iac Updated

A few weekends ago...October 10-12 Lauren and I took a weekend trip to Maine and it turned out to be quite the wonderful time.

Since I have lived in Texas all my life (until now obviously) I have never really experienced "Fall."  The leaves were just beautiful and driving along Hwy 1 just bending and winding with the Atlantic Ocean was absolutely beautiful.

We flew in to Manchester, N.H. and then rented a car and drove into Maine.  Our B&B was actually located in Georgetown, M.E. just outside of Bath.   Renting the car and driving was definitely the way to do it because we got to take in all the beauty that we would have otherwise just flown over.

Our B&B turned out to be just beautiful, right on the Atlantic Ocean.  I got up for sunrise on Sunday morning (see pictures on my shutterfly site) and the colors that came through were just incredible and unbelievable.

Here again, the Lord definitely gives us what we need, when we need it.  I'm thankful I had that weekend to be busy and marvel in His creation rather to just sit and be idle.


Our B&B


Sunrise!! Amazing.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Updates Shmupdates...

Yes, I realize I have a lot to update on (if there are any readers out there)...

-Maine
-Being in Texas this past weekend
-and as of tomorrow, I have a visitor -so there is another post.

It's hard to sit down and put thoughts together currently.  Time will pass and things will become better...but until then, this roller-coaster is off the tracks.

I leave you with these photos from Maine:


our first sighting of the Atlantic!


pretty fall scenery!



George H.W. Bush's home in Kennebunkport, ME


Five Islands, ME


No photo edits done AT ALL...it was just that beautiful





Lauren & I at Mt. Battie (overlooking Camden, ME)

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Mimi's Obituary

MARY FRANCES BELK DWYER, age 88, beloved wife, mother, mother-in-law, sister, aunt, grandmother, great-grandmother, Mimi and friend, passed away on Tuesday, the 6th of October 2009.She was born on the 15th of January 1921, in Houston. She graduated from Reagan High School in 1938, where she was assistant drum lieutenant for the Reagan Redcoats.She loved to volunteer at her children's schools and was President of the PTA at Garden Oaks Elementary in 1958-1959. As a child she was a member of the Woodland Baptist Church and as an adult was a member of Spring Woods Methodist Church.Mary married Wellborn Jack Dwyer on the 24th of July 1942, during WWII in San Francisco, California and they enjoyed 66 wonderful years together.A native Houstonian, she loved her family and friends, was an avid reader, loved history, dancing and working crossword & number puzzles. She was a wonderful person with a beautiful smile and laugh. Mary was a beautiful ray of sunshine to everyone who knew her and she faced her illness with her faith, a strong spirit and a positive attitude.

Mary was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 66 years, "the love of her life", Wellborn Jack Dwyer, infant son, Wellborn Jack Dwyer, Jr., parents, Helen Shine and James Eugene Belk, Sr., brother, J.E. "Gene" Belk, Jr., father-in-law & mothers-in-law, C. A. & Minnie Gaston Dwyer & Roberta Powell Dwyer, brother-in-law, C. A. "Red" Dwyer, Jr, sister-in-law, Gwen Dwyer Pingrey, & nephew, David Alan Dwyer.She is survived by her children Jim & Judy Dwyer, of Frankston, Judy & Art Coen of Katy, grandchildren, Michael Dwyer of Casper Wyoming, Robert & Sarah Dwyer, of Katy, Jason & Noelle Coen of Cypress, Jonathan & Kristina Coen of Houston, Jennifer & Eric Bryla of Fredericksburg, & Ashley Dwyer of Falls Church,Virginia; great-grandchildren Matthew, Zachary, & Hannah Dwyer of Houston, Avery, Jack, Brett & Mallory Dwyer of Katy, Grant & Andrew Coen of Cypress, Nora Coen of Houston, Will Bryla of Fredericksburg, sister, Helen Belk Ledbetter; brother-in-law, William G. "Billy" Dwyer & wife, Margaret Ann; nieces & nephews, Carol Ledbetter Wilson, Craig & Janice Ledbetter, Chuck & Karen Dwyer, Sally & Bill Herrmann and Sherrie Dwyer.The family would like to thank her longtime friend and caregiver, Susie Sanchez Kaess. Also, loving caregivers: Amelia Cruz , Maria Gonzales, Tina Olugboji, Comfort Olaonipekun, Houston Hospice nurse Svanhaniel Crim & Dr. Cindy Zinner.

The funeral service is to be conducted at one o'clock in the afternoon on Monday, the 19th of October, in the Jasek Chapel of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston. During the noon hour, prior to the funeral, the family will receive guests during a catered reception in the adjacent Pavilion.The interment will immediately follow the service, via an escorted cortege, at Glenwood Cemetery in Houston.Honored to serve as pallbearers during the services are her grandchildren, Michael Dwyer, Robert Dwyer, Jason Coen, Jonathan Coen, Jennifer Dwyer Bryla and Ashley Dwyer.

In lieu of the usual remembrances, memorial contributions in Mary's name may be directed to The Houston Ballet,1921 West Bell St., Houston, 77019; or to Houston Hospice,1905 Holcombe Blvd., Houston, 77030.
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Friday, October 9, 2009

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Maine -iac




So this weekend Lauren & I are heading to Maine. And that is actually the place we're staying (thanks to one of Lauren's co-workers...)

This trip really couldn't have come at a more perfect time...the Lord is so faithful.  The times I find hardest are those where I'm just idling along, sitting there.  I pray there is much rejoicing this weekend as I have so much to be thankful for.

There is a time for everything.  A time for laughing and for crying and I have a feeling this weekend is going to provide healthy amounts of both (although I'm certain most will be laughter)...and I couldn't be more excited.

I can just imagine...sitting out on the porch, listening to the ocean, thinking about my dear sweet Mimi and all the wonderful times we shared. 
 

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Mimi: she had style, she had grace.

Mary Frances Belk Dwyer
 January 15, 1921 - October 6, 2009





 



and now they're re-united. 
 


There was magic in her touch,
And sunshine in her smile.
There was love in everything she did
To make our lives worthwhile.

We could find both hope and courage
Just by looking in her eyes.
Her laughter was a source of joy,
Her words were warm and wise.

There was a kindness and compassion
To be found in her embrace,
And we could see the light of heaven
Shining from her face.
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Miss you forever, love you for always.